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Re: let me ask you a figurative question..
Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 9:46 pm
by Murphdogg
hellifiknow, LOL, thanks...
Re: let me ask you a figurative question..
Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:54 pm
by Appaloosa
Murphdogg,
be a man and tell who you are to her...it is better to know from you...yourself or her mother...it is better not to keep something like this hidden.......it is not her fault she is here but you twos.......she can make the choice if she wants to know you.......for then you will give her a choice if you tell her.......it is her right an choice......not her grandmothers or yours or her mothers.....as parents it is your choice though......when to tell her........i am sorry but i know from experience.......just my lowly opinion
Re: let me ask you a figurative question..
Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 3:21 am
by hellifiknow
Murphdogg,
as long as you know doing the opposite of anything my moronic ass comes up with is the best bet you'll do fine.
Appaloosa,
I was pretty young when mom told me, she didn't want anybody else in the family giving me shit about being adopted and she was afraid I was to young to understand but I just didn't want to let on how happy and relieved I was.
Re: let me ask you a figurative question..
Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 6:29 pm
by smjmcomic
Murphdogg,
16 is a fragil age for young lady no positive male figure can really fuck a young girl up you know. Low self estem is verry commen with dadless girls. Most strippers and porn stars and runaways never had dads. If she is yours I'm sure having a dad like you in her life would be great for both partys.
You have a good soul I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
Re: let me ask you a figurative question..
Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 10:30 pm
by Visitor
hellifiknow,
yeah i wasnt told till i was fourteen that i was adopted when i was three so i left that summer an went to my real family an caught it from both ends.....my stepfamily cause i dint belong an my real family cause they said they didnt know me......but its funny cause my mother did but she acted like she didnt know me......and i never knew the other side