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I could really use some advice
Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 6:35 am
by smjmcomic
okay so this guy keeps bothering my babyboo they were friends before I even met her but he started having feelings for her and she never liked him like that.For whatever reason's he can't reaspect the fact that she's with someone We went through this a few months ago he won't take no for an answer he doesnt understand that she's taken he keeps calling her emailing her he can't get aol messnger without him reciting his undying love for her. HERES THE KICKER.
HE JUST GETTING OVER BRAIN CANCER HE'S WEAK
I can't fuck up somebody in remission you know? what the fuck am I gona do?
The other day he ask her for cyber sex. she's blocked him from her AOL messenger over and over again but he always seems to find her again. I'm a man you know? Shes all I have I tend to get a little crazy when she gets messed with..
Oh when he asked for cyber I was sitting right next to her we were playing game like we often do. Whta balls this kids has he knows I could hurt em bad its like the cancer ate his brain.
He trys to use pitty (what a jerk) to try to guilt her cuz she dosent like him its bull shit this guy needs to grow up or get fucked up.
I'm kinda scared I'm not even joking if I get my hands on him I'm going to kill no I WILL SNAP HIM.
I can't beat up a guy with cancer that would not look good on paper.
What would you do?
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 8:36 am
by smjmcomic
Heres what Danis best friend had to say about the guy she's better at explaining the whole situation
he uses his cancer or recovery of to make people, especially girls, to feel sorry for him...i mean, come on! for a while is name on myspace was "Cancer". 5 times he's asked a friend of mine (WHO'S IN A RELATIONSHIP AND THIS HE'S FULLY AWARE OF) to cyber with him. he's a sick asshole and very manipulative
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 8:38 am
by smjmcomic
I figure I'd come here and vent before I find this guy and do something stupid I have my whole life ahead of this punks not worth it.
I keep telling myself that but I'm so fucken close to flipping out.
I have a bad temper I'm not good at controling it especially when it comes to her she doesnt need this. No body should have to put up with this.
You gotta respect the ladys you know
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Tue Aug 09, 2005 9:35 pm
by JTF
smjmcomic,
Here is what you do. Next time you are there and he wants to cyber... DO IT!!! Ask her to leave the room. You get into it, telling him all about going down on him and him coming in your mouth, you drinking every drop of it. Then ask him to please not tell her about it. Hopefully, it will scare him away.
PS. your "babyboo?"

You're such a pussywhipped bitch!
(I mean that in the best possible way, of course!)
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 3:41 am
by bingolong
JTF,

Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 5:21 am
by smjmcomic
JTF,
Is there such thiung as an online resrtaining order?
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 5:31 am
by smjmcomic
astonamous,
Its ok I'm used to JTF begging me for cyber its cool.
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 5:43 am
by JTF
smjmcomic,
You know you like it when I type that thing...

Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 5:49 am
by Mister Gee
JTF,
But supposing he likes that shit???!!

It's a difficult one, I think that he's using the whole cancer-thing as his sympathy hook. It's difficult being a guy, cos we got that whole jealousy thing that makes us do some dumb shit.
Try and see if you can put the frighteners on him without actually doing anything. Be careful though, cos a friend of mine was in the same situation and he ended up breaking into the guy's house and waiting for him in the dark. When the guy came home, my friend snuck up on him ninja-style and "negotiated" with him to leave his wife alone.
At the end of the day though, the guy is weak and lame, remember, you got your woman and all he's got is his keyboard and monitor. Unless he's physically harrassing her, then maybe you should try and refrain from actually stepping to him. I know that it's difficult, but hopefully it won't have to turn ugly.
Peace gee
Re: I could really use some advice
Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 5:56 am
by JTF
smjmcomic,
Oh, and I'm going to give you, and ALL men some advice that has helped me in life.
An old man once told me: [/i]"Ain't no bitch worth doin' time over. Don't get mad, because yes, she is a bitch. Your woman is a bitch. Your sister is a bitch. Your mama is a bitch. At some point a man has thought of every woman and thought 'What a bitch!" If you walk in on your woman and anoher man don't go crazy, just say 'Excuse me." and move on. The bitch ain't worth it. While you're sittin' in jail, what do you think she's doing? The bitch will have moved on and got her another man because you're too stupid to have realized the bitch ain't worth doin' time for..."[/i]
This man continued: [/i]"Look at me. I'm 70 years old married to a woman who is 30. You think I give a damn what she does? If she fucks up I move on to the next one and at least for a minute I was fucking a bitch that's 30 year old."[/i]