smjmcomic,
In love there is only one way to learn. And that is to live, love, and make mistakes...
Good luck! Most relationships that start quickly fail, but there are stories where it works...
Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
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Re: Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
smjmcomic,
I agree with dougdigitalpro - you never really know someone until you live with them. My wife has a few little "quirks", you know - leaving the cap off the toothpaste, never closing any door she's opened, stuff like that. I never would have known that if I hadn't lived with her. I am a neat freak, and I am sure that annoys the shit outta her too sometimes. The point is that you really need to know the person before you take a mad jump like that. I had to learn the hard way....I am now on my second marriage. I have been ass over teakettle in love before, but that and $4.00 will get you a cup of coffee at Starbucks.
The Beatles lied to us all - Love is NOT all you need. You need a shitload of PATIENCE too, especially when kids come along!
Love, peace, and chicken grease-
Geezus
I agree with dougdigitalpro - you never really know someone until you live with them. My wife has a few little "quirks", you know - leaving the cap off the toothpaste, never closing any door she's opened, stuff like that. I never would have known that if I hadn't lived with her. I am a neat freak, and I am sure that annoys the shit outta her too sometimes. The point is that you really need to know the person before you take a mad jump like that. I had to learn the hard way....I am now on my second marriage. I have been ass over teakettle in love before, but that and $4.00 will get you a cup of coffee at Starbucks.
The Beatles lied to us all - Love is NOT all you need. You need a shitload of PATIENCE too, especially when kids come along!
Love, peace, and chicken grease-
Geezus
Re: Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
mkohn,
Good adivce!
Good adivce!
Re: Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
mkohn,
I agree with Jennifer. Good advice. But you know as well as I do, when someone thinks they know what they're doing in a situation like this there is no telling them anything.
With your situation in 2000 I hope you didn't complicate manners by having relations with your lovely houseguest...
I agree with Jennifer. Good advice. But you know as well as I do, when someone thinks they know what they're doing in a situation like this there is no telling them anything.
With your situation in 2000 I hope you didn't complicate manners by having relations with your lovely houseguest...
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Re: Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
mkohn,Wow, that is rightous. You put it in such plain words and you werent even thinking of marriage. Putting 2 people together for 6 months is a task in itself.I have been there in that situation, and I wasn't as bad as her, I'm sure I had my days. He helped me by bringing things to my attention. I hope it is the reason I am happy for 13 years today. But marriage is a two way deal. No more 50/50. it should be 100/100. Good luck smjm.
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Re: Big News From The SMJM Camp!!!!!!!
smjmcomic,
No shit Kiddo.....the LAST thing anyone should do is to Marry someone that needs saving...Instead, try getting her some help from an outside source...There are alot of people out there that really DO give a shit about others......Dealing with the VA...I see 100's of them all the time...Don't let your emotions make decisions for you.
No shit Kiddo.....the LAST thing anyone should do is to Marry someone that needs saving...Instead, try getting her some help from an outside source...There are alot of people out there that really DO give a shit about others......Dealing with the VA...I see 100's of them all the time...Don't let your emotions make decisions for you.
