tamra,
Sheeeeeiiiitttttt girl, I respects what ya saying, but check it:
As long as a brother has some money & is willing to contribute to my POSITIVE financial future, I ain't tripping.
You see, I may "hang out" with certain types, but I did not say DATE them. By dating means we have an implied understanding that he is my man & I am his woman, 100 Grand.
Now, I do not have to be dating noone in order for me to CHARGE his azz!
Also, the only one I have dated that was in the game is a RAP COMPANY OWNER - how he previously got his grip - that is his business. I ain't trying to be the judge. As long as he shares with me - & he did, I do not have shiznit to say but "Please & Thank You". So, again, I do not have NO PROBLEM on that note. I am not trying to let no free chesse get by me!
But what I am trying to do is get some cheese ($$$), so I can go deposit it in my bank account or safe. THAT there, is like on my list of FAV-O-RITE things to do. I likes to watch my chips stack.
Now, on the real, I have never got no money from a rapper nor have I ever slept with one. I may have kicked it upon an occassion or two, but trust me - Big T knows what time it is - please believe.
Now don't get me wrong, you have your opinion - which is honorable. and I have mines - which is - REAL.
It is very simple, really. If a dude has some cheese and he is willing to share - then I will holla at him. I am not too picky about how he stacks his chips, unless it is illegal. If he used to do dirt then used those proceeds to become legitimate, then that is ALL GOOD too. I likes a Michael Corleone type of MFK. I have respect for that dude -for he is a crusader & go getter and I will STILL take his cheese. I do not have any predjudices against money. ALl money is green and spends justthe same.
Look, if he gave that same money to the church in the tithe box, are they going to give it back? Hell naw!!! So why should I have any qualms about taking it?
& I am not even trying to front. If I was broke as hell & hungary and a dope dealing rapper offered me some money to get myself straight - sheeeeiiiiiitttt, I would take that money in a heartbeat. I ain't even trying to floss.
Like I said, they can be calling my all types of things - money lover, hooker, pleayer, baller, whatever.....but one thing they will not EVR call me is BROKE.
Now, I can date a good, wholesome man - who works a good decent job. I fall in love with him and have a long term relationship. All kinds of shit can happen, though. He could be stingy MFKR and don't want to part with the funds. Or he could see some other tasty morsel and decide to drop me and go with her.
After all the dinners I cooked, the drawers I washed, all the shit I put up with...... even all the coochie I gave him - he still leaves me.
Now, if you are like Big T - Big T got PAID in that process. So, even though the relationship ended for one reason or another - I do not have the man no more, but I do have a few thousand to remember his azz by.:lol:lol:
Now, do you feel better alone, with a broken heart, broke pockets & a used coochie BUT a GANG of morals and uprighteousness or with a pocket full of money?
Shheeeeeiiiiiittttt, don't trip, admit it...you would wish you had gotten PAID for all of your troubles, wouldn't you? Sho ya right! & You can STILL be moral and uprighteous, but you will also be RICH!
Trust me, Big T KNOWS what time it is.....time to check my bank balance.

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& like my girl Tina says "WHAT THE F--K DOES LOVE HAVE TO DO WITH IT?"
LOVE can not pay my mortgage, car note, lights, gas, cable, credit cards, insurance, visa, MC, Discover - none of that shit.
& LOVE can not soothe a broken heart.
But MONEY pays all of my bills and taking a TRIP to the bank and then to the shopping mall - YESSS!! That will cheer me right on up & soothe whatever part of me that needs soothing.
Who ever said that MONEY does not buy happiness - has been shopping in the wrong MFKG place!
You see, the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. Just having money or going about getting it - well, that has nothing to do with it. So I promotes getting ALL that you can that your pockets can stand. (My back up company is right now saying: "Preach on Big T, Preach on!!!)
See, some people have life messed up. Thinking LOVE is the end all save all. Sheeeeiiiiiiitttt, it take M-O-N-E-Y to make the world go 'round. It take LOVE too, but you know, I gots to keep my station in life right and my paper ($$$) tight.
You got to know the TRUE game plan - if you call yourself a player in this game we call LIFE:
1st you get the knowledge,
then you get the power,
THEN U GET THE MONEY -
then you get your honey.
Don't be no dummy.
Ya dig?
I'm Out,
Big T