Wimins

[JTF]

Thank you all for allowing me to lay here on the psycho-sofa.

Disclaimer: This is in no way intended to piss off anyone.

I think I'm retiring.

I am to the point where I view women as a spectator sport.

I have had one good relationship, and I blew that one by holding everything inside. She did the same. When she let it out I was at a point where I felt I needed some time alone. She wanted to try to work things out, but I needed time. It was also horrible timing to work things out. "Yeah baby, let's give it a shot. But for the next week I have a lot of shit to do for finals. Then, I'll be gone for almost two weeks to go see my kid at Christmas. Let's work it out. See you in a month!" How would that have blown over? I did what I thought best and let her go. Now, honestly... I miss her, but feel she's better off without me.

I had a blind date set up by a friend. I wasn't really looking forward to it, but went along anyway. She stood me up. I felt relieved...

I even tried talking to a woman I met thru match.com, but whenever I would talk to her, I just thought "Why am I bothering..."

I work with a woman who I had a bit of a crush on a couple years ago. I still think she's very nice. Her boyfriend beat the shit out of her and left her unconscious in the middle of the street. She just came back to work. I am trying to avoid talking to her. The last conversation we had was well before this. She asked about my g/f and I told her we had split. Then it was 20 questions time, and when I got the opportunity I split. I don't need to be cornered into trying to say anything... I mean, what is there to say other than "Glad to see you're feeling better..."

I pretty much am now to the point where I don't talk to women I know unless they speak to me first, and then I try to think before speaking. It helps to keep out of trouble. I'll be polite and give a smile or whatever, but I'm not going out of my way to be friendly. I'm just sick of sticking my feet in my mouth, then trying to explain what the hell I really meant.

As far as meeting any. Shit. I got better things to waste my time and money on. I'm just tired.

Women is a spectator sport.

[bingolong]

JTF,

No joke honestly I feel like that alot but man when you are by yourself after awhile it's hard as hell to [/i]spoon[/i] with a DVD so I get my ass back out there on the hunt!!!

But alot of the times I work up different theories on different things, like there was a time when I really wanted to be cordail with the ladies and treat them nice but after a few bad relationships and one failed engagement I was like "fuck that" and when I started dogging them broads to better results!!! Now that might be all good in a rap song ;p but I'm at the point where I want a woman who is going to bring the best out of me (and besides that I want a challenge!!!)

But the point of the theory is that sometimes that baggage from bad past experiences will make us adapt in different ways; some will get real raw with it and treat women bad and others will just give up it on them.Both to protect are feelings and shit I have been a victim of both of these....lately I find myself cracking jokes when I am nervous with a lady thinking to myself "what the fuck are you doing Wa.... I mean [/i]Bingo!!!"[/i] ;p

....and on another quick note I was stupid to keep a steady girlfriend in college because you never have that much access to different women again but I think you take it for granted .Like all your life women are always around and then boom they're gone!!Think about the way you saw women your first day of junior high,your first day of high school. I thought when I looked at the older chicks that I was looking at heaven!! It was so many new and [/i]developed[/i]prospects butback then it didn't matter b/c it always seemed to be something .....

.......now man at my job me and another guy will check out all the new women starting the job and I will tell you the pickings are so few and far between we have lowered are standards on a few occassions.......

Regardless you are not the only one who feels this way out in the world so keep your head up!!

[Murphdogg]

JTF,this boy-girl shit hurts mane. for me having a woman is like a job, the only thing worse then having one, is looking for one

[JTF]

astonamous,

No questions here. I learned my lesson about asking women questions... Like you said, women are easy to figure out. Don't question them. They are always right. Just nod your head and agree.

[Jennifer]

astonamous,
LOL!

[bcddjjsc690]

JTF,
I'll never surrender ,I'm not a quitter , I'll continue to

search for that right woman,...until I don't have any heart

left to rip out ...trying to figure them out is not part

of the equation ....understanding yourself is the key....And

being 1/2 of a good whole is what I'm still hoping for...

[JTF]

astonamous,

One problem with women is they find penectomies humorous.
Not funny.

[bingolong]

JTF,
Good point good point!!!!

[Anditsdeeptoo]

astonamous,

Honestly, we really don't use it to think. It works independent of us. Personally I think it only stays attached to the body because of the free massages...

[bcddjjsc690]

I don't know Anditsdeeptoo,

Anytime I give mine a "free massage " ...it throws up.