I need a sanity check here....
I went out to this Halloween party with a homeboy, his name is Eric. I met this dude at an after party (for DJ Quik) about four weeks ago. He was tall, dark & handsome, so I decided to holla at him.
He was wearing a throw back, looking all thugged out but once I started talking to him, I found out that he was possibly a cool candidate. Or at least I thought he was. Boy was I fooled, but I was swift on my toes in finding out and kicking him to the curb.....
Here's the story:
Anyway, we go to the party and he is ALL upon me, like I am his girl or something. Now, I am asking myself, did I give off some kind of vibe to make him think this? I mean, I am not really feeling him like that...but he is cool though. So, I told him to chill out because I do not get down like that - all out in public.
So, when we are leaving the party, he suggests that we go somewhere to get to know each other better. I say "sure" Thinking we are going to the Ihop's or Denny's.
But No, the homeboy wants to go to the Hilltop Hotel - a hotel in LA at the top of a hill (mountain) overlooking the city. This would be cool - but one thing, the hotel plays PORNO movies and it is like SO not the place to be - especially a discerning young woman as myself.
So, I pulls the car over and ask the homeboy, is he crazy? He looks at me like I am crazy! So I said, hold up, hold up, hold up! I have to get a few things straight here... 1st I asked him - where did he live? I knew where he lived because I had picked him up. But he gives me this long drawn out explanantion that he lives with his people from New Orleans seeking shelter in LA (so the dude lives with his father & his family). I then asked him where the hell was his car. He answered - in the driveway at my house - but it needs a transmission. OK, so now I am seeing that the homeboy has issues.
So the last question I ask him was - so where do you work at? He had previously told me at the Greyhound Bus Station -as a driver - but when he answered this time, he said at the Airport - but he is on a leave of absence.
So the dude lives with his dad & children, his car is broke the F^&*(ck down and he has no visible source of income. But he wants to have sex with me, right?
I kindly pointed all of this out to him. He acted all hurt and let down and then told me he did not understand where I was coming from and the way I was coming at him was a HUGE turnoff. He further stated that he did not have to prove a damn thing to no one.
So, I put his AZZ out of my car, right there on the street - right by the Hilltop Hotel - and told that homey he had better call Pat & Turner to get his azz home.
He said - who the hell is Pat & Turner???
I said - pat that foot and turn-a that corner!!!
& I have not heard from the dude ever since!!!!!
So, did I do something wrong????
Now, what is the moral to this story - DO NOT PICK UP ANY STRAY AS HOUNDS AT THE AFTER PARTIES! & YOU MUST PERFORM THE EXTENSIVE IN-DEPTH INTERVIEW BEFORE YOU INVITE A TRICK LIKE THAT INTO YOUR CAR!
So to all the fellas, please tell me, how can I find a cool brotha - with a J-O-B, his own place, his own car and NO baby mommas????
See, I expect this from a dude because All of my shit is in order - so why shouldn't my perspective mate have his shit in order?
If you have no advice for me...at least I hope that I made you laugh with a tale from T's dating escapades!!!
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(I was thinking "NUCCA IT'S CALLED pay for shyat on your own!!") I just looked shocked and said "you have to go. my man is getting out of prison for murdering the phone guy who took too long, and I have to sign for his release into my custody."
