tomorrow will be the 2nd anniversary of the worst day of my life..

Post by **Murphdogg** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 2:35 pm

how do you get through a day like that? I'm thinking lots of booze

Post by **JTF** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:09 pm

Murphdogg,

Have a day for him. Remember him and the blessing he was for you in the all too brief time he had. Know that we all will have our time, his was just much earlier than you could have ever expected.

And when all of this doesn't do you a damn bit of good, just think about what he would have wanted. Would he want you to fall apart? If it was you instead of him, would you have wanted him to fall apart, or to remember you and be thankful for the time you had together.

If you have a drink, drink to celebrate his life!

And by all means... Spend time with friends...

Post by **Murphdogg** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:17 pm

JTF, hell I hope drinking is in there somewhere, cause I went out at lunch and got drunk..now I'm sitting at work trying not to look drunk around my cowokers..luckily I'm crazy enough sober that they don't know the difference..and thanks man for the heartfelt words

Post by **tis2flyyy** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:18 pm

Murphdogg,

Dear heart, what happened? If it hurts too much, do not bring it up.

Hey friend, just wanted to offer my support to you. You knows I's got yo' back, big baby. & I will drive on up to Sacremento to have a drink with you, if it will help.

In the words of the imfamous TUPAC - Keep your head up.

One Love
Big T

Post by **Murphdogg** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:28 pm

tis2flyyy, thank you

Post by **JTF** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 7:03 pm

Murphdogg,

See... Miracles can come of sad moments... Trudy just said I was right!

Tyr to smile man. He brought a smile to your face before! Let the fact that you were blessed to know him put another one on your big, ugly bald head...

Post by **bcddjjsc690** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 7:21 pm

Murphdogg,
Let the time you had together bring you happiness,
You 'll always be Daddy ,
Don't let any sorrow into your Love ,
Honor and Cherish your memories , until you are together again ,
Peace and Love , Bob ,

Post by **tamra** » Wed Nov 30, 2005 7:52 pm

Murphdogg,

hey I don't know what happened, but I know you will make it through it. try a nice stiff drink, lots of funny people around you and count your blessings.

and you always have us (ok, that may not be comforting huh?

) but remember lots of people are thinking of you and wishing you well.

Post by **Mister Gee** » Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:02 am

Yeah Murph, I don't really know the full score of your grief, but I just wanna say that we all have to face these things in life. I always say that God gave us the complete range of emotions from extreme laughter to extreme sorrow, because he knew that life would throw at us events that will bring them all out.

After the rain will come the sunshine again...

Peace gee

Post by **tis2flyyy** » Thu Dec 01, 2005 9:34 am

Mister Gee, bcddjjsc690,JTF, Tamra; Astronamous

Word.

Truly, this thread made me PROUD to be a member of this site. To be amongst people of you all's caliber.

Dear MurphD - I know for certain that you felt the love & support expressed here for you today. I sure did.

Peace & Love
Big T